Do you even realise what you did wrong? - disobedient relationships cause delay! If God said no its a no.





Sometimes we don't understand the magnitude of the things we have done against God. 

 Walking, in disobedience is what will take you out of achieving the will of God in your life. The things you could have achieved if you had only been obedient.
Being in fornication or in a relationship that you know God told you to get out of time a go, will keep you in disobedience, and will stop you receiving the great person that God has for you. That's how people get divorced so quickly.

 You were meant to wait on God, but you took the first thing that came a long, you knew in yourself you were not ready but just wanted the status and wanted to prove people wrong or was just desperate to be loved.

But people won't be in that marriage with you. when your being beaten black and blue no one's going to be in that but you.
Half of these marriages that we see are not what you think, and do not believe everyone that says God put us together and don't believe every voice that says he is the one. 

Test them fruits. Are they stable and committed over a long period of time and not just to you but in there walk with The Lord? Do they serve? Have they risen up in their calling? Are they happy and committed in the church they are in or are they under about 50 different ones? Are they here there and everywhere that they miss important things? Etc even not just spiritual things. Don't always make it so spiritual either.

These are the things you will see in your courting season, that will continue in your marriage. If your ok with these things now then it's ok to continue, but if you are not and have a nudge in your spirit, be obedient.

No matter if you have to look like a fool, because you told people this was the one. He might be a great guy in some ways but just not your guy.

The longer you take in disobedience the longer the wait and you will realise you wasted time and you were out of God's will.
You also must REPENT. Ask God to forgive you for walking in disobedience whether it's been a relationship that you were not meant to be in, marriage or a job and thank God that you have been able to come out of that disobedience. Ask The Lord to help you learn from your mistakes, that you will also be honest and work on yourself so that when the next season comes or the next relationship  comes along you will get it right quickly.

Walk in obedience to all that the Lord your God has commanded you, so that you may live and prosper and prolong your days in the land that you will possess.
Deuteronomy 5:33 | NIV



Don't let it take you three, four years. Don't be caught up in fornication for so long that you can't come out of it. Don't fool yourself. Please get right with God now.!


Be blessed. Jesus Loves you!


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